Monday, January 18, 2010

Wonderful Weekend

What a WONDERFUL weekend! Jake & I traveled down to Gulf Shores to spend the weekend. We spent the weekend with my best friend Amanda, her husband & their 2 precious little boys Sellers (4) & Gabe (almost 2). It was so refreshing just to hang out, catch up and talk. And so much fun seeing the boys play together! (Well, Jake kind of played. He is going through a very clingy stage!) The boys were so sweet to Jake. They shared all of their toys & included him even though he was younger & slower. They have such sweet manners! On Friday night, Jake stayed with his very first non-family member baby-sitter. An ear infection & his clinginess didn't make for the smoothest leave, but the baby-sitter said he quit crying pretty soon after we left. We met our other best friend, Stephanie & her husband for a great dinner. I highly recommend the restaurant Jesse's if you are in the Magnolia Springs / Fairhope area. Delicious! Saturday was super fun because we all traveled over to Fairhope to celebrate Stephanie's little boy Grant's first birthday party. It was a monkey theme & Stephanie did such a great job on the decorations. We had so much fun! I also got to meet my good friend Julie's new little boy Jude. Jude was born during the Alabama/Auburn game. His parents, especially his dad, are huge Alabama fans. What good luck he brought at the end because we sure needed it! Jude was so beautiful & perfect during the party. I was so glad to finally meet him! I also enjoyed catching up with several other friends from college who live in the area. On Saturday night, Amanda & I took the boys to Mellow Mushroom to eat. Yum! I was so sad to leave on Sunday. These trips down south are bittersweet. I love seeing my friends so much, but get so sad when I have to leave. I've been so blessed with such good friends pre- & post- college. But there is something so unique about the friendship bonds you form while in college. Especially as college freshman! Especially my bond with Amanda & Stephanie. They came into my life at a time when I was so lost. They've helped me discover who I am & loved me in spite of all of my mistakes along the way! They are 2 of the greatest friends anyone could have, and I don't know why I got so lucky to have them both as my closest friends. And I just know that our boys are going to be best friends too!

Amanda, Sellers & Gabe threw a private birthday party for Jake! It included cake, presents & balloons. They even got Jake his own personal cake to dig into. How sweet & thoughtful! Of course he loved the cake!
The boys eating dinner Friday night, waiting for the baby-sitter to arrive.
The big birthday party! BFF's Gabe, Grant & Jake.
Grant & Jake playing with the Leap Frog table
Grant eating his birthday cake
Opening gifts
Sweet little Jude feel asleep with his little head still raised
Me, Amanda & Stephanie with our boys
Gabe & Jake holding down the fort at the end of the table at Mellow Mushroom
Sellers drinking out of his VERY long straw he made (Jake thought that Sellers was hilarious)
Playing together Saturday night

Monday, January 11, 2010

Comparison Pictures

I was kind of bummed because I wish now that I had taken Jake's picture each month beside something, so I could see how much he grew each month. You would think out of over 2,000 photos, one each month would be in the same location. Well, I didn't find one for each month, but did find some that were at least taken at milestones. See below how a 5 pound baby turns into a 28 pound baby in 1 year!
1 week
6 months
1 year

2 weeks

1 year

3 weeks

6 months

1 year
1 month
6 months
1 year
By the way, does anyone have a good photographer they want to recommend in either the Chattanooga, Birmingham or Montgomery area? I want to have someone take Jake's 1 year (or 14 month!) photos. If you have a suggestion, either leave me a comment or email me. It would be greatly appreciated!!

Sunday, January 10, 2010

1 Year Check Up

On Monday (1/4) he had his one-year check-up. He weighs 28 pounds which puts him in the 95% percentile and is 31 inches long which puts him in the 75% percentile. Of course, my #1 concern to discuss with the doctor was Jake's weight & eating. This child LOVES to eat. He will eat anything you put in front of him. (Which that works to our advantage, because of that, he doesn't mind eating very healthy! We certainly don't have to give him junk food, just to get him to eat!!) But I have been concerned because he never seems full. He will gobble up everything you put in front of him. We have to give him only 1 piece of food at a time because if you put a whole plate in front of him, he would try stuffing everything on the plate in his mouth at once. (I'm not kidding. He once tried sticking 10 pieces of chicken in his mouth at one time. Of course he choked & had to spit half of it out, but we learned our lesson. Only 3 pieces of food on his plate at once, for the time being!) He scarfs down his food. Once he has eaten all of the food & his plate is clean, he cries. It is so pitiful. I'm torn, because I don't want him to be hungry, but I also don't want to teach him bad eating habits (like over eating) early. I'd done research on the Internet, but was ready to talk to a real doctor! Our doctor assured me that Jake was fine. He is not over-weight. His doctor said that he was just a big growing healthy boy. He said to enjoy the fact he does like to eat healthy, because in another year or so, he will probably be a typical picky eater toddler. He also said to go ahead & stop feeding him baby food, and switch to toddler food and/or table food. Also go ahead & switch him fully to cow's milk. I figured that the last two were going to be his suggestion, so we used December as a transition month. We started a few times giving Jake for dinner, what we were eating. We also started introducing cow's milk & real sippy cups. (Up until that point, we had been using the Born Free Sippy cups which are a combination of the bottle & a sippy cup. At $10 a cup, they are not cheap, but they were great. They were great for transitioning Jake. Some of our friends have used them, and their children didn't care for them, but we loved the Born Free Bottles & Born Free Sippy Cups & highly recommend them!) I am happy to say, that as of January 1, Jake no longer eats pureed baby food, formula or uses a bottle. Yahoo! (Our wallets are smiling as well!) Everything about his checkup was normal, and he has already hit all of the milestones. So it was a successful checkup (even though I will always continue to worry about his weight!).

What else is going on in this one-year-old's life? (And my notes for his baby book which still has not been written in since he has been born:)

Jake has 4 teeth on top with 2 popping through this last week. (Which equals runny nose & lots of drool.) He has 6 teeth on bottom with 2 more coming through. (It is kind of hard to count all of his teeth because he bites.)
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We have a walker!! When we left him the weekend after Christmas, he would take 2 tiny baby steps if you had your arms reached out. By New Year's weekend, he was up to almost 5 steps. Then this past week, he just started walking out of nowhere. We don't have to prompt him, he just goes. It is awesome, but nerve racking! I get really nervous in the kitchen, which is all tile. I walk behind him bent over like an idiot ready to catch him if he falls. He looks at me like "get a life"! Our new mission is to get him comfortable walking in his tennis shoes. The first time we put them on him, he looked like we put 10 pound weights on his feet. He wouldn't even stand. He is getting used to him though. (I know that he should probably be in soft soled shoes, but I couldn't find any wide enough, and was tired of trying to shove his fat feet into them!)
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He loves shutting doors, taking baths & riding in his car seat in daddy's car (it's a SUV & he gets to sit by the window. When we get in my car, of course it is lower & his seat is in the middle of the backseat. He always acts disappointed.) He loves to bang things together and bang on things (the washing machine is his favorite). He also likes to point and touch everything. He especially loves to point to your eye, nose & mouth (not that he knows the name of those body parts, he just likes to point at them!). He likes to act shy, but grins when people talk to him. He loves attention. He also loves music. He loves when you sing to him & commericals that have music. He will stop what he is doing to watch.
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He does not like when you make him get out of the bath tub or try to take something away from him. And of course he doesn't like when you wipe his nose. He is kind of sneaky, so you have to keep your eye on him! But other than that, he is a pretty happy kid!
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Funny Story: He had been walking around, but had not come back through in the last few minutes. I went to find him. He evidently had found his diaper bag & the zip lock bag of puffs in it. He had gotten the bag open & dumped all of the puffs in the floor. He was eating away. As soon as he saw me, he started double timing it, shoving as many as possible in his mouth. He knew they were about to be taken away. I was laughing too hard to get on to him. I just wish I had my camera nearby.
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Getting the hang of walking with shoes on

It is hard walking with these 10 pounds weights on your feet

He loves to shut doors

I guess you can stay

Sleeping in his first pair of "kind of" big boy pajamas

After I wash Jake's hair, I always comb it while he is still in the bath tub. (Not that it helps, his hair still goes wild.) Of course he has to grab anything that you are holding, so he grabs the comb. Then he started trying to comb his own hair. It was so cute! I grabbed the camera from the hallway. I had to turn him with his back to me though, because when he sees the camera he just stops what he is doing & smiles. I had to turn him around so he couldn't see me!

He has been walking for one week now. Yea!!

Jake is very excited about the upcoming week. First, his best bud Grant turns 1 on January 12. He is also getting to spend the weekend with his other best buds, Gabe & Sellers. (Well, I don't know if Sellers will want to be his best bud, since he is an older & mature 4! He might be too cool for Jake & Gabe. He'll be the cool older brother!!) I am soooooooooo excited though. Jake & I are headed down to Gulf Shores to stay with Amanda & her family for the weekend. I can't wait to see those 2 precious boys of hers! Then on Saturday, we'll drive over for our friend Stephanie's little boy Grant's 1st birthday party. Too much fun! I can't wait to see my 2 best friends!!

Monday, January 4, 2010

The Blog is Now Almost Completely Up-to-Date

Sorry for the delay in updating the blog. We have been going nonstop for the last few weeks. Things did slow down over the weekend, but I was using that to just get to hang out with Jake. Everything is updated though, except for his one-year check up update which we had today. But since it is 1:00 in the morning & I've still got some dishes to wash, that will just have to wait until another day to get updated. But please check out what all we have been up to! I've updated the blog with 6 new posts. To read in order, start with lowest one first & read up. Kind of confusing, I know! (Start with December 24 entry) I hope that everyone had a great Christmas, Happy New Year & their 2010 is off to a great start!

Getting 2010 Started Right (January 2-3, 2010)

On Friday, we got our little Jake back! I was excited that he would have one day to hang out with Robbie & Denise before they left to go back to Delaware Saturday morning. I loved New Year's Day falling on Friday. It gave us Friday to sleep in, but then the weekend to just hang out. Since it was cold & rainy, we stayed in most of the weekend. It was great! Jake got to play with all of his toys. It was so much fun to just sit in the floor & play with him. It was a reminder to me, that sometimes we have got to just slow down & enjoy the moment. We are always racing around. It was so nice to just sit in our pajamas, play & read books all day. Jake loves all of the books he got for Christmas & his birthday. We've already read them all, and many of them twice! (Thank you Henry for Llama Llama Red Pajama. Jake is obsessed with it!) He got several different sporting balls which he loves and he also loves anything that he can beat on or bang together. I can honestly say though, that he has played with & loved every toy that he got. (Well, except for a few that he is terrified of, but the people who gave us those & us have had a good laugh over it!) We feel so blessed to have such a wonderful group of family & friends who have showered our little boy with such love & generosity.

Okay, so I missed the mark a little and never got a picture of Jake's first Christmas under the tree on Christmas morning. (Wasn't all my fault, Santa left some of his gifts in Chattanooga.) So I decided once we got back, I would just compile everything & take one big picture. So here is Jake with all of his Christmas goodies (plus probably a few birthday ones that I accidentally threw in). The only thing missing is all of the clothes he got. But there was no way I was dragging them all out of the closet! We have got one very lucky (& very spoiled) little boy!
Playing in his ball pit. (I've seen the same ball pit in so many other people's pictures on blogs & facebook. I guess that everyone else found the great deal too!)

Good-bye 2009

I went & looked back on my last post for 2008, which was titled "Good Bye 2008". I can't believe I forgot so many crazy things all happened that year. If I had to sum up 2008 with one word, it would be "Surprise". 2008 was full of surprises! The one word I would use to sum up 2009 it would be "Happiness". 2009 was such a happy year. Sure it had its rough patches, but we made it through them. 2009 started off with one of my best friends giving birth to her first child, Grant. Grant & Jake were initially due 2 days apart. Jake decided to come a few weeks early though, so they ended up being about 3 weeks apart. In the spring, Robbie & I celebrated our one year anniversary of marriage. The same weekend of our anniversary, we celebrated at the wedding of our friends Travis & Paulette. Jake also welcomed his friends Dru, David & Alex to the world! During the summer, we celebrated the marriage of Chad & Melanie. Jake also welcomed more little friends (girls!) Addie & Sara Quinn. Fall & winter brought the celebration of mine & Robbie's 31st birthdays and we ended the year celebrating Jake's first birthday. I can't believe that I'm saying good-bye to another year. So good-bye 2009, thank you for another great year! I end the year, with a quote from the Bible, that just speaks volumes to me. We used it in our Christmas card this year, but it applies all year long.

May the God of hope fill you with joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 15:13

Happy New Year (December 31, 2009 - January 1, 2010

On Sunday, we headed back to Chattanooga, but we were minus Jake:( (His daycare was closed the week between Christmas & New Year's so he was hanging out with his grandparents that week.) But Robbie & I only had one day to be lonely, because on Tuesday, one of Robbie's best friends from collage (Robbie P.) and his wife (Denise) came to visit from Delaware:). They are such special friends and such wonderful people. We were so happy & excited for them to come!! We missed Jake greatly, but have to admit it was nice to go non-kid friendly restaurants again!

For New Year's Eve, since our other friends were child-free as well, we (the girls) decided we wanted us to all go to a nice dinner. TN had to screwed it up by having their bowl game played on that night. So, we had to make our dinner reservation for 5:00! Early bird special!! At least with the early time slot, we did get a private room!

Left to Right:Andy & Margaret, Zach & Kimberly, Robbie & me, and Robbie P. & Denise. (Zach, Robbie B. & Robbie P. all went to McCallie together. Andy, Margaret, Zach & Kimberly all went to TN together.) Great circle of friends!!

After dinner, we all went to Zach & Kimberly's to watch the TN game & ring in the new year. We were also joined by 2 other couples. Happy New Year!!

Robbie & me

me, Debra & Margaret
Robbie P. & Denise
Zach & Kimberly
We played a joke on Chris & Allie who are engaged to be married in May. (Neither of them are into the sappy wedding stuff.) We told them it was a surprise wedding shower which included lots of shower games. First they had to open a few gifts.
Robbie P. & Denise gave them a picture of the spot on the golf course where Chris proposed.
The boys gave Chris a Wii. Of course we told them the shower was a joke (along with the tissue corsage) & no games had to be played. I don't think that they were fooled, but at least they got to keep the gifts!

Celebrating Christmas (December 24-26, 2009)

We got to my parent's house Wednesday night. Jake's cousins Maddox & Marrell come over to wait for us to get there. The kids all had matching pajamas. Getting a picture of them that late at night was impossible though.

As good as it was going to get
On Thursday, we celebrated Jake's birthday with a birthday party lunch. Mimi, Granddad & Jackson stayed after the party, so that they could go to Christmas Eve service with us & my family. It meant so much to Robbie & I to go to Christmas Eve service with both of our families. Especially after all of the emotions of last year's Christmas Eve service. Christmas Eve was such a special day for us in so many ways.
After the Christmas Eve service, my family all crammed into our car to ride around & look at Christmas lights (something we always did growing up). We made it through 1 neighborhood before the kids became uninterested. So we called it a memory & headed home to wait for Santa.

During the ride, Marrell & Jake kept holding hands. Such sweet cousins!!
Christmas morning! Happy Birthday Jesus!! Since Jake was pretty clueless about Santa, Santa left his big gifts at home in Chattanooga. He figured Jake would have enough to open between 2 families & a birthday party. Santa figured that he would get away with that while he could!

Mommy & Jake Christmas morning
Little Santa (Robbie fussed about the Santa suit, but how cute is he?!?!) I figure I have a very limited timeline before he starts protesting!
Gran taking Jake outside so he can sneak him extra puffs
For me?!?!?
Enjoying Christmas (& puffs)
More pictures (Jake was getting pictured out)
Marrell ready for the gifts to be opened

Jake with Uncle Billy (my brother)
Marrell & her mommy (my sister-in-law Leigh Ann)
(Note: We missed you Aunt Lindsey & Uncle Brooks!! Can't wait to see you in a few weeks though!)

Daddy & Jake
Me with 2 precious babies
Jake tickling Marrell
Telling each other their favorite gifts
Santa letting his belly hang out (This picture was Robbie's idea. I caved since he let me let Jake wear the Santa suit.)
What was the best gift of all? A snowflake box, of course!
It even doubled as a hat
Maddox is not sure who let all these crazy people in
Christmas sure does wear you out
We headed to the Bush's Christmas night. They had opened gifts that morning, but saved our gifts for when we got there. Unfortunately, our camera was in the car, so we didn't get any pictures with our camera.

Saturday morning with crazy bed hair
Mimi giving Jake one of his last bottles (we switched completely to sippy cups once he returned to Chattanooga)
Testing out his new car seat which was a gift from Great Granddad Jake & GG Kathy. He LOVES it! We took him for a ride in it & it was his first time to face forward in the car. He kept clapping and laughing the whole time. He was so excited.