Digging for artifacts in the sand pit
He could have stayed here all day. He LOVES to stick his hands in water & play.
He could have stayed here all day. He LOVES to stick his hands in water & play.
To stop & play OR just keep going?
So, should you stop & let your child play on something if you know they are going to throw a fit when you make them leave? Jake & I were at the mall early Saturday morning. Our mall has a little soft playground inside. It is usually very crowded, so I normally would not stop to let Jake play. But, since it was early, there were no other kids playing. I decided to stop & let Jake play (even though he had been content just sitting in his stroller). Jake had a great time playing. After about 15 minutes, it was starting to get crowded. There were lots of other kids now & their parents were too busy playing on their phones to notice their kids about trampling my toddler. So I decided it was time for Jake & I to move on. He threw the BIGGEST fit. Screaming, lying on the floor, the whole 9 yards. (And let me tell you, that trying to pick up 35 lbs. of dead weight throwing a fit IS NOT easy or something you can do gracefully!) After we got outside, he calmed down, but I asked myself "why did I even stop". Yes, he had fun, but it was such an ordeal leaving. So, is it worth it to stop & let them play, or should I have just kept going?Jake (18 months) & Addie (11 months) before dinner, waiting on their friend Connor (19 months) to arrive
Jake wearing daddy's sunglasses at dinner Our group (minus Alli & Chris who had not yet arrived)